Friday, March 21, 2025

Friday Favorites, 3.21.2025.

 


Happy Friday, friends! I totally meant to publish a blog post yesterday, but the day got away from me and I had Wednesday night plans; my life feels full and busy right now, so don't be alarmed when you see me skip a day of blogging. Everything is well, I assure you; I'm out enjoying life to the full. I have no idea when days like that will strike, so I just wanted to mention it here this morning. Also, I have some more life changes coming up after the summer, so my life will be even busier then. Stay tuned until the end to find out what's up with me lately! 


Meanwhile, here are some favorites of mine from this week. 




This was my favorite meme that I saw this week! My best friend sent me this Sunday or Monday, and it pretty much sums me up as a person. As I've been saying lately, I'm just here to make everyone else feel great about their lives! 🤣 




Another favorite perk of my job is meeting new friends, like sweet Andrew. He comes into the bookstore each and every week, and he's one of my weekly highlights. He's the nicest and most joyful person I've ever met; he inspires me every single time I talk to him! As a whole, the world could take a lesson from this dear man. 




I had such a jam packed weekend last week that I forgot to take my vitamins and anti-inflammatory before I left and was super sore from that, so I sat outside in the lobby for church on Sunday instead of going into the sanctuary! It's not necessarily a favorite of mine to sit out there, but I'm always grateful for that as an option on the days when I don't feel good or am really late (from working in the bookstore), or sore like I was last weekend. I had a friend who sat out there with me during the service; it's always nice to have company! 



Sourdough day is always a favorite! I sent one of the loaves home with my friend Teresa when she left Sunday. 




Going to Mom's with windows down and music blaring was a favorite this week! Does anyone else think that's therapeutic? I was so tired that day, and this revived me for the rest of the evening. I did the same thing going back home, but I had the heat turned up to high in my car!





Being at Mom's was a favorite! I love how her mantel is decorated, and I loved watching Gilmore Girls while I was there.




Any meal I don't have to cook is always a favorite! This one that Bill made was exceptional. 




Speaking of my dad being exceptional, so is his handiwork on this new screened in back porch! And yes, I refer to Bill as my dad now all the time; he's stepped up in my life in a big way since Dad died last summer. I'm grateful for his love and support and fierce dad-like tendencies. I assure you, nobody wants to mess with any of his girls! 



Sunsets always have been and will always be a favorite! 




Wearing this blue dress on Tuesday was a favorite! 




And changing into something more conducive for walking was also a favorite!




Another beautiful day, another moment of time in the car with the windows down and the music turned way up! 




I went to Mare's for dinner Tuesday night! We had cauliflower crust pizza, and then we went on a walk in her very hilly neighborhood. It was so much fun and it felt amazing outside! 









Color is my favorite, and so was visiting The Dixon Art Gallery in Memphis to walk through their stunning tulips! I'm so glad Marilyn was up for this; anytime with her is always a favorite! 




Perspective reminders are always a favorite for me!



And so was yesterday at work; I got to help out with preparations for a big event coming up for the kids in our town, and work bestie came to eat her lunch with me when she got back from running an errand and picking it up. We sat and listened to music for thirty minutes, and I then I sat and worked on this blog when she went back to her desk. I'm always grateful for fun times, laughter, and the gift of friendship! This was me taking my coffee into work with me yesterday and sending this picture to a friend of mine. 


(I saved the best for last.)





I decided after 28 and a half years, that it was time to unbreak the sealed up wedding dress I wore on October 4th, 1996. My divorce will be fully official next week, friends, and you'll never guess what I'm going to do to celebrate opening up a new chapter in my life. I'm going to burn my dress in a bonfire! I'm going to keep part of the train and beadwork as a memory, but the rest of it will be lit on fire. I am pretty sure people may think I'm delusional, but I want to do this, and it'd either be given away to Goodwill or I could try to sell it (but nobody would want to buy this). Not only did I open the boxes containing the dress, I tried it on, and it still (mostly) fit! I wish you could have heard me laughing hysterically over this; I literally cried I laughed so hard at myself. I really am fine, I promise, and I felt like it was a joyous occasion worth mentioning here; I even sent this picture of me in the dress to Todd and he joined me in laughing. I'm glad we can laugh together, even if it feels a little darkly humorous to do so; I'm just glad to be laughing instead of crying! 


And onto my life update, one more time within a year: I gave my official notice at work this week. My last week here will be at the end of June, and I'll be going to work full time in the Collierville Schools. There's a teaching assistant position opening up, and I'm 95% sure that it'll be mine; I've been in touch with the principal already and I'll be returning to the school I was at in 2023! I'm beyond excited at having a school schedule, for full time work, and for summers and holidays off (and paid)! I'll make more money at this job than I do right now at my church, even with full time hours, the pay still wouldn't be enough for me as a newly single woman. I had to take a step out in faith now so they can start praying about finding my replacement and so that I'll have lots of time to train her; it'll take a hot minute, because my job is a big one and there's a lot of moving parts! 


I hope you're not sad for me when you read this, but life will begin to look different yet again. I'm excited for the upcoming change, and for being able to be back in a fun and fast paced environment! I feel like God provided me this opportunity two years ago when he led me to the schools again to begin with; I formed friendships and connections there that are still strong today, and that's why I've been able to be in contact with the principal. Those are my people, and if I can't be at my church, I'd rather be there! This will also afford me the chance to get back into choir and singing again, and I'm grateful for that. I hope this makes you smile like it has me this week! 


What was a favorite of yours this week? I'd love to hear! Thanks for reading my blog today, friends. I hope you have the very best weekend; love to all! 


Jenn 🩷❤️




26 comments:

  1. Congrats on the new job! Jobs with kids seem to be rewarding yet emotionally exhausting (I say this as someone who works part time with kids; I don't know if I could do it full time (I mean I could if I had to but I do like not having to if that makes sense)). Have a great weekend!

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    1. Thank you, even if it's not officially mine yet. I've applied for two other jobs and am anxiously awaiting to hear from them. I hope you had a great week and that you're enjoying your weekend, my friend!

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  2. What a way to end the post! The burning of the dress and the new job!
    I am so excited for you! I really think it is going to be perfect for you!

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    1. Right?! Thank you for being my cheerleader of a friend. I can always count on you!

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  3. On to the necx new adventure! Your new job sounsd great - better yet that you're familar with the building/admin/saff/kids, etc. I love the idea of burning your dress. I wish I had thought of doing that with the wedding dress from my first marriage! Have a great weekend!

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    1. Yes! And I wholeheartedly agree with you on that. Isn't that going to be fun?! I'm doing it next weekend, most likely. I can't wait!

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  4. So many great things in this post! I love those memes! You still look so pretty in your dress! I am so glad you have closure and direction for the future. I enjoyed our outdoor outings this week. I love riding and listening to my playlists, especially on these spring like days!

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    1. Thank you! Aren't those great? I'm excited for all the closure and the promise of hope for my future...and for YOURS! I love doing that same thing with music, especially when the weather is warm enough to go windows down!

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  5. Wow, Wow, Wow! I love the idea of burning your dress. I'm not sure where my wedding dress is from my firs marriage in 1984 - the one with the veil and all of the lace - it was very dated and my daughter didn't want it. I wish I'd thought to burn it. And congrats on your new job - I was a teacher's assistant for about 12 years in a middle school setting and absolutely loved it. Unfortunately back then, the assistants didn't get paid over holidays or the Summer and insurance was very costly. After my divorce, I had to leave that job and find something else. It all worked out though. What grade level will you be working with? Love the direction your life is taking and that you are boldly going forward!

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    1. Isn't that fun?! I cannot wait to do this! Thank you for that! I'm excited about my future as well, and it helps since I've already been at this school. God keeps on opening up the doors for me, and I'm just trying to walk through them. I trust Him with my life!

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  6. I am so excited the students in your district will be blessed to have you as a teaching assistant! I was a school based speech pathologist for the first twenty six years of my thirty eight year career, and assistants are a an integral part of the education system. So excited to follow your journey!

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    1. Thank you for that! I'm really excited about it myself. I love that you worked in a school; it's a very rewarding job, one that I'm looking forward to more and more as the time draws closer. I always appreciate your kindness and encouragement!

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  7. How exciting for you. I know -love your job at the church, but I'm so glad to hear you will be back to singing and being in the choir. I know you loved that and I hated it that you couldn't do it any more. What a great job you're going back to full time now. If it's like schools in Ohio, you should have some pretty good retirement benefits and you're young enough to be able to spend enough years to work and earn them. Plus summers and holidays off--Yay! Congrats!

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    1. I'm excited, too! Thank you for that! I am so ready to be back in choir and am beyond excited to start singing again. You are right, and the benefits (and the pay) will be much better than what I'm getting now; even though I work part-time, the pay wouldn't necessarily change if I went full time. I'm looking ahead to after the alimony ends, and know that I'm doing the right thing. The bonus is the holidays and summers off!

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  8. My dress I can still wear (and do wear as it's a formal dress rather than a white wedding dress) so I don't know if I could burn it but I do think it's important you do something positive - a ritual, a party something to celebrate the end and the beginning, and a renewal - as you are creating a new life for yourself, in a positive way (which is not to say you wanted the divorce but what you've been through in the last 12 months was hard but where you are and where you are going is going to be better than you imagined, and you've earned that, cos YOU made that happen (the good future).
    So burn it in a bonfire, have good friends celebrate.
    My neighbour was a man who was divorced and after about 4 years he through a party to celebrate. He made sure I understood it was not because he hated his ex wife (still an active parent of his children) or he was celebrating freedom or whatever, but that they had to split up and it was the right thing and he felt an end of the difficulties needed to be marked (I think so he had a 'fresh start' in his head).
    So I will raise a glass to your future and pretend I am watching the white dress melt into the orange flames. Then I will look at you, congratulate you on what you have survived and how wonderful the next year will be for you! You are stronger than you were, more determined than you were and more resilient than you realised. Here's to a wonderful future that you are now ready for! Good luck with the new job. That sounds very exciting indeed!

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    1. threw! My goodness. Where is my brain?!

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    2. That's so cool about your dress! And I love that story about your neighbor. I appreciate your kindness and encouragement! That means the world to me!

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  9. Congrats on the new job; that is exciting! I got rid of my dress and veil and whatnot just a few years after our wedding (that's my whole declutter personality kicking into high gear). It sounds like you had a great week!

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    1. Thank you! It's not mine quite yet, but I needed to take a step out in faith. I know it may sound crazy to some people, but I'm trusting God for the results in the end. That's funny about your personality, and it made me laugh!

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  10. The new job sounds like a great opportunity. The best part is that you are familiar with it already, so it won't feel quite as new. The church job really filled a need for a season, and now you are ready to move on. The wedding dress idea sounds brilliant. I think it will be a big sense of closure. By the way, my wedding dress looks very similar (from 2001)! These days, I am not sticking to as much of a blogging "schedule" either, just when I feel I really have something to say! Hope you have a good weekend - windows down and enjoying life!

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    1. Yes! I agree and am excited about it. Thank you! You are so right about my church job; I'm so grateful I had the opportunity when I did, because God knew I'd need my church family this last year. That always blows me away! It's good to know I'm not the only one with the blogging. I haven't been feeling it as much lately! I know it'll evolve again when I start working full time again. I always appreciate your kindness and friendship! I'm excited to see you soon!

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  11. It makes me so happy to read that you are happy. You really are living life to the fullest.
    Your mom's mantel is so pretty and I get it you calling Bill your dad. My dad's partner has stepped up to be a mother to my brother and I. Bill sounds like a wonderful man to have your life.
    I love that you tried your dress on and are going to burn it. That is a great was to celebrate the end of a chapter in your life. It is good that you and Todd have a good relationship now.
    Oh wow! That is exciting news about the new job. I am happy for you.

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    1. Thank you, Kim! I appreciate your kindness, encouragement, and friendship. That means the world to me! I love that you have the same thing in your family that I have in mine. We are blessed!

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  12. Burning the wedding dress, seems similar to book burnings. People can't do away with or erase history, personal or otherwise. Seems the more prudent, realistic solution would be to simply leave the offending item locked away in a box, rather than to dwell on it.

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    1. Nah. Where's the fun in that? To each their own. I'm not doing away with history, I'm doing away with the tangible reminder of a dress that brings me memories of a failed marriage.

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  13. My friend, who is a photographer, used to do "trash the dress" sessions where brides would play in muddy creeks in their wedding dresses. He got such great photos! I think it's great that you're doing something which has meaning to you. Also, I'm so happy that the perfect job is showing up for you just as you need it. You never know how things were lining up in the past to make your future work out.

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