Happy Thursday, friends! Guess what? I'm officially divorced. The judge granted us this yesterday morning when Todd went to court via Zoom call. I'm a single lady! I never thought I'd be so happy to say that, but here I am saying that and smiling like the Cheshire cat from Alice in Wonderland. Such is life for me these days, and I'm not complaining! I purposefully documented my entire day on Wednesday; without further ado, here is all that happened from beginning to end. I hope you enjoy! Stay tuned for a note at the end.
I was up at 6:30; I've been sleeping in later, have I mentioned that? And yes, that is sleeping in for me. I let the dogs out, brought them back in to play, and made my cup of coffee. I'm drinking it black now!
I scrolled socials for a while (I'm way behind on blog reading these days. Sorry, friends! I'll catch up with you all again eventually...maybe Friday or Saturday.), then I made my lunch for the afternoon, and had my quiet time. I went upstairs right after that to get dressed for the day.
I always take a picture of my outfit before I leave my bedroom! Do you do this? I love my new mirror! I have a friend that I always send these pictures to, which is why I started being more consistent doing this every morning. We call them our outfit checks.
Work besties came into see me shortly after I arrived at work; I only got a picture with Mandy, though. I love them both so much! Mandy always brightens my mornings with her smile when she comes in to get ice water. We always laugh and catch up, and then she goes back to her desk.
I'm behind in my Bible reading, so this was me playing catch up today. I was reading something my Pastor recommended for me, and I loved what it said in Psalm 32!
After work, I went to the park with sweet Abbey and her kiddos! It was the best park day for a picnic.
I was gone until two, then I came home and played with the puppies. Stella and I took an epic nap, which was heavenly!
I loved this about prayer! It's so true. I had so many people praying for me yesterday, which I am so thankful for.
Baby Stella and me after waking up from our nap....
I went upstairs and changed clothes for the night, because my shirt was bugging me all of a sudden. I found this dress that I bought last year that was too tight and tried it on; I'm thinking of wearing it for Easter. Do you have thoughts about it on me? I don't want to look like someone from The Little House on the Prairie.
And then Marilyn came over bearing gifts! She brought me my favorite flavor of ice cream and a hanging basket with begonias in it; my friends are so very good to me!
I was back at work by five.
I went to choir practice from 6:30-7:30.
And then I went back into the bookstore and held baby Jolene! She's my favorite. I totally worked one handed for ten minutes while I held this angel. It's my favorite part of Wednesday night!
I came home and showered and washed my hair, then I put away my new shoes after I tried them on. I've lost about 26 pounds, and my feet have shrunk! I bought two pairs of new sandals and these white sneakers. I love them all and can't wait to wear them. After this I came downstairs for dinner...
And this might have been my dinner. The day called for it, right?
Well that was my whole day! From the beginning to the end, it was sweet and so much better than I'd dare hoped. My family, friends, and co-workers all helped me tremendously, and I am so grateful. I also want to thank you for your many thoughts, prayers, texts, emails, comments, and kind gestures. I don't even know where I'd be today if not for Jesus and the encouragement I've received from family and friends. Thank you doesn't seem adequate to say, but I'll say it again and again; thank you from the bottom of my heart! I am thankful to be divorced and a single lady again. I'm open to whatever God has in store for me, whatever that looks like. I can't wait for it all to start unfolding!
Thanks for being here today and everyday, friends. Love to all.
Jenn
I’m excited to ride the nest journey with you! Jen
ReplyDeleteThank you! I'm excited for that as well.
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DeleteCongratulations! Excited for you and your endless possibilities and thankful for the power of prayer for sure! XO
ReplyDeleteThanks, friend! I appreciate that my friends are all excited for me. What a gift!
DeleteWhat a day! Glad you are at peace and leaning into Him for guidance moving forward. A lot has happened in the last year!
ReplyDeleteWhat a day, right? It felt epic! That's the only word that I can think of to adequately describe it from start to finish. Thank you! It's been quite the nine month long journey; it was a roller coaster of emotions that I'm sure will remain for some time still, but I'm glad to be here today.
DeleteYou are such an inspiration, especially with your faith through the recent months that just haven't been what you expected from life. I'm thankful that you are willing to share with us!
ReplyDeleteThat's so sweet of you to say-- thank you! I haven't always been like this in the last nine months, and I have had good and bad days. I've tried to rise above it all, though; sometimes I failed, other times I succeeded with the help of the Lord. He has taught me a lot this last year, like trusting Him fully especially when I don't know what lies just ahead. It's been a wild ride, and I'm thankful to be on this side of it now. Thank you again for your kindness and encouragement! I hope you keep coming back around each day!
DeleteWhat a day! I am so glad you documented it! First, I love the dress and it's not Little House at all. I love the new sneakers. I want an update on Stella and you and Stella and Chloe.
ReplyDeleteMy sister also had her divorce finalized via Zoom. Her judge was named James Brown. She felt good.
I didn't start off with the intention to document the whole day, but I'm glad I did this now. I love looking back on days like this, and yesterday was a day worth remembering. Thank you for all of that! I'll add some links on Friday for the new shoes, and I'll update on the puppies as well. Thanks for that reminder! I'd kind of forgotten that it's been such a big week here at my house. I've been so busy each day, and that's continuing through Sunday! Isn't it strange that something like that happens over Zoom? James Brown?? That's hilarious! This judge was named Felicia.
DeleteI've been following your blog for several months now and really enjoy your writing! I love how you have documented your story and journey - what a wonderful walk of faith! And can I add that you look amazing?! The blue dress looks wonderful on you!!!
ReplyDeleteThank you! I'm so glad you stopped by to say hi today. I appreciate your kind words! I have been losing weight since January 24th, and I feel better than ever before. I'm excited to wear it for Easter!
DeleteI am so glad yesterday was such a good day for you! I’m thankful for Todd taking care of the court meeting and that you both have worked so hard to come to a mutually agreed terms and can now be friends! This just makes life so much easier! I sincerely hope you can both remain friends and move on to what God has for you both!
ReplyDeleteYou have NEVER commented on my blog!🤣 But thank you, bestie. I love you!
DeleteWhat a fantastic day you had! It makes me so happy that you are happy. You have such a great support system around you.
ReplyDeleteI love that dress, it looks perfect for Easter!
It really was. Thank you!
DeleteGod takes us on the most amazing journey - and the journey is always best with a golden! I love your joy!
ReplyDeleteHe does! He is so good, and He's where it comes from!
DeleteWhat a day! On to the rest of your life. Way to go with the weight loss and love the sneakers. The dress is so cute - not Little House at all!
ReplyDeleteOnto the rest of my life! I love that. Thank you, friend!
DeleteSo glad you wrote it all down for posterity. The dress is super cute on you! I'm excited for you and all the new things coming your way. The power of prayer is often underestimated, and I'm glad you felt those said on your behalf. Have a great day!
ReplyDeleteThank you! That's why I wanted to share it all here. I'm excited about my life as well, and I wholeheartedly agree about the power of prayer. I'm so grateful for it!
DeleteIt sounds like a perfect day, filled with joyful things to balance out that "it's over" feeling. I feel like our paths have been similar in the big ways and that could be why I identify with you so much. I divorced after 17 years of marriage and while I was D-O-N--E with the male species at that time, four years later I met the exact man God made for me. We've been together 20 years (in January) and in September will be married 20 years. (When God puts things in your life and gives you clear direction, you listen!) God may surprise YOU someday!
ReplyDeleteYou can really see the weight loss in your full length picture - you look fantastic! I've lost about the same amount of weight on this cancer journey and just ordered a dress in a Large for the first time in years. I always opt for comfort but my XL comfort was starting to look sloppy - what a treat to look in the mirror and not feel sloppy! The Easter dress looks great! The power of the prayers of our friends and relatives is massive - I don't know how I'd have made it through these last three months without them.
God bless you, thank you for your blog and go live a big life!!!
I love that we have all of that in common. I knew that a lot of what I've shared resonated with you, but I didn't realize all the similarities. I love what you said about listening to God. Thank you for your encouragement, my friend! You are an inspiration to me.
DeleteI can't remember how I discovered your blog but I felt an instant connection (it's been over a year) - we may never meet but I feel like you truly are a friend as well as my sister in Christ. <3
DeleteI'm so glad you had a good day and felt all the love and support. I love that thought about "prayer goes where people cannot." That is really sustaining me right now.
ReplyDeleteYou have come so far, Jennifer! It's so amazing the gifts God plants on our journey... one's we often miss in the moment but when we look back and reflect, we see how precious they are! I love the way you find joy wherever you can!
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