Friday, January 3, 2025

the first Friday Favorites of 2025

 


Happy Friday, friends! How was your week? Are you still floundering around wondering what day of the week it is? Have you resumed normalcy yet? I went to work again yesterday, and it felt so good to be back. I miss my work family when I don't see them very often and think that is such big blessing! I am still in the phase of telling the Lord thank you for the fact that I get to go to work when I'm there. I have some favorites from the week that I thought I'd share. 




Compare and contrast pictures are my favorite! The top picture popped up in my memories this week, which immediately reminded me of the picture we took together on Christmas day. 




I went to Taco Bell for my dinner Sunday night and got this drink; did you know they have zero sugar Baja Blast??! It's one of my favorite drinks. 




I went to the funeral of my friend's dad Monday, and it was one of the best funerals I've ever attended. He was such a godly man, and his son preached his funeral. I sat with my friend Laura in the tech booth for moral support. 




Have you heard of this trendy lunch called a Tiffany plate? I came across it on TikTok; it consists of mainly veggies with cottage cheese and mustard. I couldn't find some of the veggies I wanted for this, so this was my own version of it; don't knock the cottage cheese and mustard until you try it, though! I was surprised by it, in a good way. 



This picture card you see in the frame was my favorite Christmas card this year. It's my dad's house all decked out for Christmas! My brother Paul and his son William outdid themselves on the card this year. 




Having a new Bible to read and write in is my favorite!





Receiving cards has always been a favorite of mine; check out this pile of cards from the last six months of my life! I have the greatest friends a girl could ever ask for. 




This is one of the pillow cases my friend Faye gave me for Christmas! Isn't it beautiful? I opened the box immediately and washed the cases, and this week I shared one with Marilyn so that she, too, could lay her head down each night on this promise from Isaiah. 



And speaking of Marilyn, how cute were we on New Year's Eve? We went to not one, but two parties together! Her friends were so kind to include me in the invitation. Check out my drink; they called it milk punch, but it was similar to a white Russian. It had milk, bourbon, vanilla, cinnamon, and nutmeg. I only had a sip of this and a sip of red wine prior to this. 





New journals are always a favorite!






And so are old pictures that I came across. 




I went to Mom's and Bill's for an early dinner on New Year's day; driving home with a sunset like this is always high on my list of favorites. 




I have mentioned several times lately how much I love quirky home decor items; I love this little snow bird my one of my best friends gave me a long time ago. He reminds me of her every time I see him. 



Little books like this one above are another favorite of mine; I love little daily shots of wisdom that can be found in this book.



This candle warmer is my newest favorite thing. I love how the smell permeates this small space, and I love the ambiance the light gives. 



Something odd about my new life is the fact that this is where I eat dinner most nights. If I cook for Jonah and me we eat at the table together. 



Lastly is this new brush that Mom gave to me this week; it's my new favorite brush! It glided right through my tangled up curls after I showered yesterday when I got home from work. 


What was a favorite for you this week? I'd love to hear from you! Thanks for reading my blog today, friends. I'll see you back here next week, and don't forget about the Currently link party on Wednesday! We'll be talking about what we're currently loving, doing to stay warm, resolving, organizing, and wearing. I hope you make plans to join me! Love to all. 


Jenn 🖤


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Thursday, January 2, 2025

Thankful Thursday

 


Happy Thursday, friends, and happy bonus blog post day once again! Keep reading after this post for my bookish post for the month of December, along with my favorite books that I read in 2024. 


I can't let the start of the year begin without a post of gratitude of things from my week. I have so much to be thankful for, and these are the things I've got written down in my gratitude journal. If you're new here, I like to write posts like this because being thankful is something that is beneficial for all of us; no matter what we're going through, when we take the time to focus on all that we have that to be grateful for, our perspective changes. I don't know if you're like me and need that from time to time, but I know I always need a good dose of just that. The more we do this, the easier it becomes. Here are some things from my week that I'm thankful for:


  • an easy week before jumping back into work
  • that the weather turned cold again
  • finishing another trip through the Bible
  • being able to start all over the next day
  • church!
  • my Pastor and an incredible sermon
  • memories that make me smile
  • seeing and talking to my sons all throughout our week
  • having NYE plans
  • the prayers of my family and friends
  • twinkling lights of the tree I received for Christmas
  • getting to keep Graham's baby dogs all week (they're back with him now)
  • that Chloe is doing great without being in her kennel while we're gone
  • winter themed movies
  • good books
  • a home that smells good
  • the kindness of people around me
  • the hopefulness of a new year




What are you thankful for this week? I'd love to hear from you! Thanks for reading my bonus blog post today! Love to all. 

Share Your Shelf

 


Happy Thursday, friends & happy day of normalcy to me. I'm back at work today, and most likely it'll be a long one since we're going to try to balance the bookstore for the months of November and December. Pray for me! It's going to be rough, if the last time we tried was any indication. 


I started off so strong in my reading game this year, but then it dwindled when I became unable to focus thanks to life circumstances. It did pick back up again in December, so I was glad for that. Before I talk about the books I read in December and which books were my favorite this year, here's a look back at all the bookish posts from 2024. 


January

February

March

April

May

June

July

August

September

October

November 


In December I read three books. First up was Three Christmas Wishes by Sheila Roberts. (Click on the picture to be re-directed to Amazon.)



I loved this magical fairy tale of a book about Christmas magic in the lives of three different women. It was fluffy, light, clean, and predictable, and I couldn't have loved it more if I tried. 


Next up was this one: 



I haven't seen the movie yet because I wanted to read the book first, and I'm glad I did. This was a very sweet story about the Herdmans, some very naughty kids who don't have parents, and a family whose mom puts on the annual Christmas pageant at their church. It was short, and sweet and had a redemptive theme throughout. I loved it and finished it on Christmas morning. 


Lastly, I read this one:



This book had me glued from the first sentence! This was about someone who didn't want to get married but didn't have the nerve to call if off herself. Her friends hired her someone they refer to as an objector. He objected to their marriage, the wedding was off, and a friendship was born. I love Lynn Painter's books and will always consider them an automatic read. 


I also read the Bible through, so I'm considering that one my fourth and most important book of all. All in all this year I read 58 books, which I'm good with considering the downward turn I took in reading in June. Here are my favorite books from this year:


#4:



#3:




This entire series was amazing! I flew through them all. 


#2:




If you haven't read this yet, what are you waiting for ??? It's on everyone's favorites list for this year. 


And my favorite book of the year because when I first read it my marriage was still intact, and then I loved it so much that I read it again in June and July...




What was your favorite book this year? Do you have any authors or books that you recommend? I'd love to hear from you! Thanks for reading my blog today, friends. Love to all! 


Jenn 🖤

p.s. I wrote two blog post yesterday but didn't publish either until later in the day; one was about things I like to do on New Year's Day, and the second one was the Wednesday Hodgepodge. They're under this one, so keep reading if you want to check them out. 




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Wednesday, January 1, 2025

Hodgepodge 1.1.2025.

 


Well, even though they were both off to a late start, I guess the first day of 2025 is also a bonus blog post day! Happy first Hodgepodge of the year, friends. I'm linking up with Joyce for today's post. I'll jump right in!

1. Oxford's word of the year for 2024 is "brain rot". Are you familiar with this term? Do you suffer from this condition? Ha! This is a term used to 'capture concerns about the impact of consuming excessive amounts of low-quality online content, especially on social media.' If you were looking for a word to capture 2024 (for the nation/world, not your own life), what word would you choose? 


I have heard of this term, and I have actually experienced suffering from that kind of online content. I am alone a lot, as you know, and sometimes I find myself going down these long rabbit holes watching IG reels or TikTok videos. If I had to pick a word to describe 2024, I think I would pick the word "weary" in regards to our outgoing leaders of the United States. I don't share political opinions here ever, but no matter which party you belong to, I think all of us feel the same way after four long and hard years of inflation and political unrest. I don't expect to blink my eyes and have everything be fine and dandy after the new President enters the office, but I am hopeful that at least some things can change for the better, especially regarding wars going on in other countries and also the cost of things. Case in point: I went to pick up some Taco Bell for myself the other night and spent $14 on my food, and y'all, I got one of their "meals". Taco Bell used to be where I went for really cheap food! 


(Do not come at me, please, for what I just shared. These are my thoughts and opinions, so even if we disagree, let's just leave it agreeing to disagree and keep things kosher here in this kind community.)


2. It's National Polar Bear Plunge Day today...will you be participating in one of these events, or even one of your own? How will you spend the first day of this brand new year? Do you have a traditional New Year Day's menu?


I didn't participate in one of these, but I want to do this someday! I have read about how in Finland, most of the people that live there have saunas built into their homes; in the winter when it snows, they take a polar plunge into the snow (often in only their birthday suits) and then go thaw out in their indoor sauna. Supposedly there are lots of health benefits to doing this, and then you get the best sleep of your life. I'd love to do that someday! Maybe I'll have the chance to go to Finland someday and participate in that. 





Doesn't this look amazing? 


Here's how I spent my day: you can read about it in my first blog post of New Year's day. I've never had a traditional menu on this day, but I went to mom's house for dinner and they had made smoked sausage, dumplings, black eyed peas, turnip greens, and cornbread. It was delicious! 


3. What's something that brings you joy and how will you do more of it in this new year?


Honestly, I love to read and want to do more of it in this new year. I still read a decent amount of books in 2024, but because of my inability to sit and focus on something for too long, I began a downhill trend when my life changed. I'm hoping to pick up my first love again in 2025! In order for me to read more, I just need to read more, you know? My first inclination is to watch TV instead of reading a book, so I should probably start there. 


I also love to sing and prayed for opportunities to do that more as well this year. I sang in choir and on our praise team for years until I started working in the bookstore at church in the fall of 2023. Since then I haven't had many chances to sing, but I'm praying that happens this year. I don't want to waste the talent that God gave me, and I don't mean to sound conceited by saying that, but it's true that if we waste what we've been given, then we may not always have the ability and talent that we did at one time. My pastor and I talked about this one time, and he actually said those very words to me. 


4. Do you struggle with the January blues? What's one thing you can/will do to keep them at bay? 


I haven't always struggled with this, but I do if it snows and it sticks around for too long. I need to be with people! If I start to struggle with that this month, I will make myself get out and do things. I'm already working on that anyway, but I'll do even more if I feel myself getting down in my mood. I will say that I think I'll enjoy seeing my counselor more this month than I have in others; she will have good ideas for me if I need them, I'm sure. 


5. Will you choose your own personal word of the year for 2025? What about a goal, a resolution, or maybe even a bucket list? Elaborate as much or as little as you like. 


I've picked words of the year before, but I'm not doing that this year. I'm picking a Bible verse, though! Here's the one that means so much to me right now:



6. Insert your own random thought here. 


I'm writing this on the night of New Year's day. I had dinner with Mom and Bill as I mentioned above, and now I'm home and comfy writing this while I watch a winter themed Hallmark movie. I am over the Christmas ones and have found all the winter ones now. I love them! I did a few things around my house today to be ready to go back to work tomorrow. I caught up on laundry, cleaned the downstairs, and straightened up my bedroom. I will probably work on cleaning my closet tomorrow night after I get off from work; it's kind of a mess right now! I would like to continue on in my streak of de-cluttering, purging, and organizing. I want to work on bookshelves this weekend and get them either donated or dropped off somewhere. Do you follow Emily Ley on Instagram? She has a great January de-clutter challenge; the first day was tackling the junk drawer. 


Just a thought if that kind of thing appeals to you! Thanks for reading my bonus blog post today, friends. Love to all! 


Jenn 🖤


a new year - 2025

 


Happy New Year, friends! As I woke up this morning, I was excited about doing all the things I love doing on this day each year. Here's what I did:


  • I had my quiet time and started all over in Genesis 1 in reading the Bible chronologically again 
  • I filled out my new calendar and got it hung
  • I worked on my blog planning composition notebook for this month and started planning out blog posts that I want to publish, along with ideas for new posts
  • I wrote in my new journal
  • I made this new image on Canva to use throughout the year, since I'm using this as my life verse in 2025
  • I enjoyed a very leisurely morning sitting in my pajamas and read blog posts at noon
  • I composed this blog post

What do you like to do on New Year's Day morning? 


I love to write in my journal, and I started a new one today. I found a journal prompt from Laura Tremaine on Instagram that I used. Do you know who she is? I love to follow her on IG. The prompt was this: What do I want to carry into 2025? Here are ten things that I came up with.


1. The love, mercy, and grace of God—both for others and myself. 


2. Deep and true joy—LORD, You are my portion and my cup of blessing; You hold my future. You reveal the path of life to me; in Your presence is abundant joy; at Your right hand are eternal pleasures. (Psalm 16:5 & 11)


3. Peace—You will keep the mind that is dependent on You in perfect peace, for it is trusting in You. (Isaiah 26:3)


4. Humility and genuine kindness...even and/or especially when I'm around difficult people.


5. The ability to let go...of hurt, anger, unforgiveness, old expectations, envy, and even caring about what someone who no longer matters to me does with their life. 


6. I want to heal in 2025, so I want to focus on taking care of my spiritual, physical, emotional and mental wellbeing. I want to continue monthly visits with my counselor and my chiropractor, Tammy, who also happens to be a really good friend. I want to read the Bible everyday, and I want to grow closer to the Lord than ever before. 


7. I want to stop talking about my divorce with people. I need to learn to set boundaries on this topic and to communicate clearly with people that it's not anything I'm willing to discuss with them, even when they're well meaning. 


8. I want to say yes to more social events and occasions. Also with this, I want to be more intentional about asking people to include me in their plans. I want to learn to invite myself into people's lives more. 


9. I want to entertain more and have people stay with me when they come in town. I have a friend doing this soon, and I'm excited!


10. I want to be productive everyday. With doing this, I hope to be better at purging, de-cluttering, and organizing things as I prepare to pack up a house and move at some point this year. 


Do you have any goals or things you'd like to work on this year? I'd love to hear from you! Thanks for reading my blog today, friends. Love to all!





the first Friday Favorites of 2025

  Happy Friday, friends! How was your week? Are you still floundering around wondering what day of the week it is? Have you resumed normalcy...