Happy Monday, friends! I hope you had a good weekend! I'm linking up with Holly and Sarah for today's post. Did you do anything fun this weekend? Here's a little peak of a few things I did.
I hadn't planned on doing any Black Friday shopping on this day, but I needed to get up and get out of my house. I just went to one store, but I was in there for a couple of hours. We have this great local bookstore called Novel that I love visiting. I really prefer going there alone so that I can wander and just take my time; not only is it a bookstore, it's a great place to buy gifts.
And because it was a Friday and the day we would normally celebrate Thanksgiving with Dad, I decided to go visit his grave. I've never been a grave visitor, honestly, but it's a peaceful place to go and just walk around. I like going there, because I feel close to Dad. That sounds weird, but he really loved going there when he was alive; that's why I feel close to him there. I often find that I can have a really good cry there, and I usually need it on the days I stop by there. I love where his grave is; I park under pine trees, which reminds me of the home I grew up in, because his driveway was lined with the same kind of tree. There's a little bridge I have to cross to get to his grave, and it's just quiet and peaceful.
I don't have pictures of this one, but my best friend's son and wife invited me to their family Thanksgiving dinner that Friday night. I wasn't going to go, honestly, but they really weren't willing to take no for an answer. I wanted to stay home so bad, but I committed to going so that I wouldn't talk myself out of it; tell me I'm not the only one does things like that! So after being at home after my day out, I was here for about thirty minutes, then I changed and left again and headed to their house. And you know what? I am so glad I did this! I'll share more about this tomorrow, so come back for the full story...but just know that when I left there, I drove home thanking God the entire time, because they had invited me into their lives that particular night.
And then on a whim, Marilyn came over to hang out with me for a while. She watched me eat dinner (🤣), and Chloe fell in love. It was a fun night, and I was grateful for the distraction of her company while my sons celebrated Thanksgiving with their dad. I think if I'd been alone, I would have gone crazy wondering how it was going. As it turned out, I barely thought about what they were doing.
Church was yesterday morning, and then I did something really fun again last night, but I'll talk about that on Friday. How was your weekend? I'd love to hear from you! Don't forget about Wednesday being our day for the Currently link party! Our prompts for December are loving, looking forward to, buying, hoping, and baking. I hope to see you here again each day this week! Thanks for being here and being my cheerleaders. I'm so grateful for all of you! Love to all.
Jenn 🖤
I have been really blessed by your people and how they support and love you. You are surrounded by some really great friends and family.
ReplyDeleteOh my goodness, you and me both! I am continually blown away by the people that love me and my sons so well. I've never been so grateful in all my life!
DeleteI am so glad that you went to your best friend's son's house for dinner even when at first you didn't feel like it. I can imagine how hard Friday was without spending the day with your dad. I am not a grave visitor either. But I can see that if your dad liked the spot, you would feel close to him there. Have a great Monday!
ReplyDeleteMe too! It turned out to be a wonderful weekend, and I am so glad for that. I used to think it was weird that people did that, but here I am going pretty often. I don't talk to him, but I do pray while I'm there, and I always thank God for the relationship we had and how he always pointed me to Jesus. I hope the same for you, my friend!
DeleteSounds like you made it through and found lots of joy in making it through! I think what you chose to do sounds just right.
ReplyDeleteYes! I'm so glad that "first" is behind me. I know I'll feel the same about Christmas; part of me wants it to be over, but I also love the season and want it to last. All the mixed feelings! It was a great weekend, though.
DeleteIt was a full, fun weekend for you & I'm so happy for you! I enjoyed the visit & I am so behind on watching Hallmark movies. At least I will have plenty to watch in January when I'm back by myself :).
ReplyDeleteIt was, and thank you for that! I am so glad you came over that night, even if it wasn't for long. I think I would have been more anxious had you not been a good distraction for me. That's a good way to look at not having watched them yet!
DeleteYeah you did it and crushed it! So proud of you and so glad you felt JOY...you deserve only the best XO
ReplyDeleteRight?! I feel the same way and am also thankful for the simple fact that I survived another first. You are so sweet, my friend! 😘
DeleteWhat a lovely weekend.
ReplyDeleteIt sounds like you made the right choice going to your friends house for their family Thanksgiving dinner and it sounds like Marilyn popped over at the right time.
Thank you! I agree wholeheartedly.
DeleteI always feel like I am visiting with a friend when I read your posts. I’ve been reading some about Mel Robbin’s “let them” philosophy to deal with my DIL’s mother ( not that I am comparing it to your situation)— but it has really helped change my perspective! Have an awesome week friend!
ReplyDeleteThat's the sweetest thing you could say to me; thank you for that! I'll have to look into her, I've heard someone else talk about that before. I hope you have a great week, too!
DeleteOH yes, I absolutely have to make myself say yes sometimes and then I know I won't be able to talk myself out of going later on since I'll disappoint the host(s)! I don't always feel like going out either; particularly in the winter when it's dark and cold and snuggling on the couch sounds SO good but I almost always a so thankful I make myself get out and attend afterwards.
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad I'm not the only who does this! You are so right about being glad about it afterwards.
DeleteI understand the peace you feel sitting in that quiet spot where your dad is buried. My dad is buried in Arlington and when we're able to make a stop there I feel the same. I'm glad you got out. I'm a homebody married to someone who is up for going out any day any time. We compromise : ) I love nothing better in the evening than my comfy robe and a movie on the couch. My daughter and her family return to the states late January. Her husband comes back early February but she wants to get the kids settled here before she's in a wedding mid-February that requires travel plus a dress alteration. Have a great day!
ReplyDeleteI laughed when I read about you and your husband having to compromise. That sounds like my idea of a dream evening! That is wonderful. I know you will love having her (even somewhat) close again!
DeleteSometimes I have to convince myself to go somewhere and then after I am so thankful that I did. I'm glad it worked out that way for you too.
ReplyDeleteYes! I am so glad I'm not the only one! 🤣
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