Tuesday, December 31, 2024

top moments of 2024

 


Happy Tuesday, friends! As all of you know by now, it's been the hardest year of my life to date. Me being me, I don't want to end this year in a negative way, so I thought I'd share my top moments from this year. In spite of all that has gone on in my life, God has been so very good to me and to my sons. I have so many things to be thankful for that I don't ever want to forget. I'll try to keep this as condensed as possible, so here goes!


January brought this epic sunset that was taken at my mom's house and a massive amount of snow. I loved the cozy vibes it gave for the first day or two, but I quickly became a little claustrophobic and was so glad when it finally melted so that I could leave the house again. Have I mentioned that I don't drive in ice? Here's to hoping there is none of that this year! 






My sister Terri died in February of 2022; one year later, on the weekend of her birthday, the family came together to celebrate her life at my dad's house. This was an incredible kindness of God, because it would be the last time that the family would be together before Dad died just mere months later. How precious is my great niece Claire? She's a favorite of mine, for sure, and is one of the coolest people I know. Actually, the same can be said of her mom, my niece Amanda. 




March was the beginning of birthday season for my sons! We had a family celebration for them, and also in that month, I began the habit of using my Mondays off as a day to soak in some vitamin D while reading a book. As you can see, Crash enjoyed this activity immensely. 




We celebrated Dad turning 93 on March 29th! Look at his sweet smile. 




In April, Marilyn, Tanya, Joanne, and I started a new yearly tradition of a blogger's retreat! Maria was supposed to join us on this trip, but had to back out at the last minute due to an unforeseen injury. 




May brought about something new for both my church family and me; we hosted an event called Collegiate Summit for about a thousand adults in our church. I made literal tens of gallons of coffee over the course of three days and worked overtime in a week for the first time ever since having my job. It was exhausting, but so much fun! I remember feeling grateful for all of the help I had for this massive event. 




Also in May, Jonah and I started dog sitting for our neighbors and they let us use their pool. I loved getting to do this and working on a tan! 




We had a fun work outing as a church staff and attended a baseball game together!





Dad and I made a fun one day trip to the town where I attended college, and made memories to last my lifetime. 




I had one last night with all of my boys living in the same city before Noah moved to Dallas...




My niece and great nieces came into town...




...and we took Noah to Dallas with a trailer. That'll be the last time I say "we" here on my blog. 




June brought more pool days!




It also brought about the major life event that now defines my life...life before and life after. I appreciated getting to go away to the beach with my friend Dedee during the worst week of my entire life. She was exactly who I needed to be with, and I'm glad my sons forced me into going. I even swam in the ocean for the first time since I was a teenager! 





We rushed home on the last day of our trip, and two days later my sweet dad ran into the arms of Jesus. This was what my July consisted of. 







And in August, all my sisters came home and we celebrated my mom's birthday with a surprise party!





We cleaned out my dad's house and got it ready to be put on the market...




...and my Graham bought a house!




In September I made the trip to Dallas with Missy and Teresa to see my Noah...




...and bawled my eyes out for two hours as I began the drive home. I cried a lot in this trip, and at one point, Missy literally climbed into the bed with me and held me in her arms as I sobbed myself nearly to sleep. 




October brought about surviving a huge first for me, and Marilyn and I got to meet Sophie Hudson at a book signing. It was so much fun!




I confess to fangirling a bit when I finally got to meet John Mark. I could be his mom! 🤣




This was a month of doing things I've never done before, so this was us at a music fest! Also not pictured are the Oktoberfests we attended, one of which was in the sketchiest part of Memphis. 🤣




The end of October and November brought about a Denver trip! This was much needed and a relief to get away and be together with my sisters. Being with my greats is healing! 





And on Thanksgiving night, I spent the night at Mom's house. This was "my" bedroom. 




As much as I dreaded the day of Thanksgiving, I was glad that the day was so much better than what I'd hoped. 




December brought about many moments that I loved; getting to spend time with my best friends, seeing two plays at The Orpheum that friends treated me to, time with family, seeing Christmas lights, and lots of reading by the light of the Christmas tree. 





More than anything, I love and appreciate that my sons were like a wall of strength around me. They've stepped up their game this year in my life and have supported me, cried with me, laughed with me, held me while I sobbed in their arms, talked me through anxiety and panic attacks, called me often to check on me, hugged me even when they're not huggers all the time, and have stood behind and beside me. I am so grateful for the strong and kind men they've turned into, and that even if we're all a little worse off from the wear and tear of life this year, have somehow managed to stay positive for me. I don't know when the roles changed from me encouraging them to the exact opposite, but that happened this year. I would say we mutually encourage each other and continually remind one another that this will all be a distant memory this time next year. 



Lastly and most importantly, in case I didn't talk about it enough here this year, I thoroughly enjoyed reading the Bible through again in chronological order with The Bible Recap community. I loved it so much that I'm starting all over again tomorrow! If you'd like to join me or are interested in learning more, here's a link with all the information you need to get started. In 2024 I mostly listened to the Bible being read aloud to me on the YouVersion Bible app, but next year I'm going to mostly read it again with my own eyeballs while using my new Bible. Here's how it works: you open the YouVersion app and click on Day 1; start with the "devotional" tab, which is just a prayer that you pray before you get started; you read or listen to the reading for that day, which is usually about three chapters give or take; then you go back to the "devotional" tab, scroll down, and watch the Recap video for that day, which is always less than ten minutes. All in all, this takes about twenty minutes a day. 


All of us have that time to spare! Care to join me in 2025? If not, what plan have you made to grow closer to God this year if you're a believer? I'd love to hear what you're doing, and I think it's great to talk about it, because it gives us accountability. 


Thanks for being a huge part of my life here each day, friends! I look forward to time spent here and the encouragement that we bring to each other. Many of you are bloggers yourselves, and others of you are readers. I appreciate each and every one of you! Thank you for the many prayers, words of encouragement, emails, texts, and cards that you have sent to me this year. I love this little online community and look forward to being back everyday of the week in the new year. I have lots more that I want to share and I'm working on some new ideas for each month; what would you like to read more of? I hope to incorporate one day a week to talk about Jesus, what I learn from His word, and how I walk out that faith everyday of my life. I'd love to hear any ideas or suggestions you may have for me! Today is not my only post; I'll be back later today for a book recap for the year, so check back tonight if you have some spare time. 


As always, thank you for reading my blog today, friends. Love to all!


Jenn 🖤



31 comments:

  1. I love this post. I smiled and cried with you while going through these memories. You have certainly walked through some hard things this year, but by the grace of God, you made it! Having kids that step up during hard times is one of the great joys of having older kids. It just warms your heart to know that you raised people who love you :) I truly hope this next year is so full of new beginnings and joy for you. You have so many people in your life that love and care for you and that is a great blessing. Hugs to you my friend :) Moving on to 2025 and better days ahead!

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    1. I smiled and cried as I wrote this; especially when I got to Noah leaving for Dallas and my sweet Daddy dying. Praise God for His strength as I've walked through this year! I am so thankful for my sons, and you are right about that being a benefit of having kids that are grown. They've stepped up in so many ways for me this year! Thank you for your encouragement, your prayers, and your many words of kindness. Know that I am still praying for you and your husband as well! Happy New Year!

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  2. I enjoyed reading this recap of your year that was anything but easy yet filled with faithful devotion to Jesus and your loved ones, especially your sons. I like how you did not avoid mentioning the painful parts of your year yet were able to see positives- many of which were the result of you pouring yourself into others. I am glad that you plan to continue writing as much as you do into 2025- I look forward to reading what you have to say when I wake up!!. I will need to think about blog ideas :). I'll text you if anything comes to me throughout the day. It's so early right now, lol.

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    1. Thank you for that! I have had times when I've caved and given into pettiness as I've reached out to (ahem) someone, but I confess to being a very hurt and betrayed human being. God knows my heart! I've had to apologize some along the way, but I'm okay with that and have no problem with doing that. I told someone a few days ago that I can always find someone who has it far worse. I'm not the first person to walk through this and won't be the last, even though it feels so traumatic, unfortunately it's a common occurrence. But here is to looking ahead from now on out! I'd love to text with you today, so feel free to shoot me some suggestions if you think of any! Happy New Year, my friend. xoxo

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  3. 2024 had so many ups and downs. How did I miss that you ladies did a blogger retreat. that sounds like so much fun.

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    1. It did! I'm excited for the new year in that regard. We did do that, and it was so much fun! I blogged about the trip after we got home. You can look for it in the search bar...just use the words "blogger trip" and it should pop up. Happy New Year!

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  4. Even though I was "with" you all year as a blog reader, it was great to recap your year with you. It was a lot for anyone to handle. You did it with grace and strength. Let's turn the page! I would like to buy a new Bible this year. Do you have a recommendation for a good one?

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    1. Thanks, friend! It's funny how we forget from month to month all that has happened, though some are forever carved into our minds. It was a lot, but here's to a new hope-filled year! Yay for new Bibles! I am on my third She Reads Truth Bible. I love it so much that I can't buy anything else. It's the Christian Standard Bible version, which just means that not only is it very easy to read, but it's also the most accurate version pertaining to the words in the original language they were written in. I love the wide margins, too, as you've seen proof of here. I like the bonded leather ones the most; there are lots of color options to choose from. My most recent one is navy blue, but the one before was rose gold! There's also a champagne gold now.

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  5. I just received my Bible Recap Study Guide and have the plan downloaded on YouVersion. . . I am SO ready to start this. I've never read completely through the Bible and in this season, I just want to grow and deepen my relationship with God. Thank you for being such an inspiration in all areas and Happy New Year!

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    1. YAY!!! You will love it so much, and you will do exactly that as you learn more about God through His word this year. I'm so happy for you that you're doing this! I am finishing today and will start all over again tomorrow and cannot wait. I love the Old Testament, because it's like a hidden treasure with Jesus as the prize as we look for Him there. I learned so much with Tara-Leigh Cobble last year, and I've read the Bible through chronologically many times. Thank you for your kind words, my friend! Happy New Year to you and your family as well.

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  6. I'm praying you have a wonderful and blessed 2025. I love reading your blog and seeing your bright smiles. **HUGS**

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    1. Thank you! I'm so glad you come here to read. Happy New Year!

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  7. Though I am sure this year was such a struggle you have done so well trying to keep positive and looking for the good. You have handled these changes and challenges with such grace and I know you are ever so thankful that it has brought you closer to your boys and your friends and you family. I feel so blessed to be counted among those and to have made the "cut" for one of your top moments!

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    1. Thank you so much for that! I feel like that hasn't always been the case, but I am human, after all. That was the best trip! I'm so excited for a repeat this year. Happy New Year to you, my friend! xoxo

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  8. I enjoyed your photos of you and family, friends, etc. I know it's been a really hard year (really I can't even imagine) but I'm glad you are focusing on the many blessings you had even in the terrible times. I know you will have many more blessings in 2025...God is so wondrous and kind!

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    1. Thank you, friend! I have found that is the best way for me to just forge ahead. I am counting on those better times in 2025! Happy New Year!

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  9. This was a great post - so many things to celebrate even though you lost your Dad in 2024. You have so many wonderful memories of celebrations with him to sustain you. And as for the other matter, you've truly risen above and beyond to create a new life for yourself and your sons, bravo! I love the pajama shot of you and your sisters. Happy New Year!

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    1. Thank you! I hope I have for the most part, at least. Isn't that the most fun picture? We did that for my mom for part of her Christmas. I loved the idea when my sister brought it up! Happy New Year to you!

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  10. You are a true warrior- I am sure this will go down as your most difficult year but you will be stronger because of it and you are surrounded by love and strength and you exude JOY for all of us- Happy New Year! XO

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    1. Thank you! I think I will be too. I loved what you said! Happy New Year to you, my friend!

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  11. I'm doing The Bible Recap again this year and I ordered the book this time to see how I like that. I enjoy the podcast and am not exactly sure where the book fits in but going to try it. You've had a year and cheers to coming out on the other side stronger, wiser, and with your faith still carrying you through the rocky waters. Happy new year!

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    1. Oh, that'll be great! I'm not sure how the book fits in, either. I bought some journals for the bookstore at my church that I may end up buying. It seemed like something that would benefit me with that time that I spend in His word each day. Thank you for that, my friend. I sure hope that is the case! Happy New Year to you!

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  12. Even though I followed along with you throughout the year, seeing your recap really highlights all the peaks and valleys you have experienced. July...just wow! I'm so glad you are able to see the joy despite the tough times. I always love your faith-filled posts,and get a lot of encouragement from them so be sure to keep those coming. Happy New Year! I know 2025 will be a great year for you!

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    1. PS. The blog trip was such a highlight of my year!

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    2. Thank you for that! It's quite something, looking back on the last twelve months. That's why I wanted to write this post, so that I can have it to look back on. Thank you for that! I will keep those coming. Happy New Year to you and yours, my friend! I am so looking forward to another trip this year!

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  13. With all the difficult, difficult days and weeks and months in 2024, you still found reasons to be grateful and joyful. You are incredible. Praying that when you wake up in the morning tomorrow, it will be the beginning of the very best year of your life. Happy New Year, friend. May 2025 bring you good health and so much happiness.

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    1. I tried my best! Thank you for your encouragement. Today was wonderful!

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  14. Loved reading this and hope it was helpful for you to write this as you reflected back on the hardest year of your life as well. I agree, great nieces (& nephews) are healing! Oh, I loved our trip and fun times and look forward to 2025!

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    1. It was helpful! I always enjoy these types of posts. They really are the best, right? I'm excited for our next trip!

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  15. It sounds like you have had so many happy and nice moments throughout the worst year.
    I am so sorry about your sister, it is nice that you could all come together to celebrate her.
    I love that you met up with the other bloggers. It looks like you all had a great time.
    What lovely photos!
    Wishing you all the best for 2025.

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    1. I did somehow still manage to have those bright spots in a hard year. I'm so thankful for that! Thank you, friend. Happy New Year!

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