Tuesday Talk

 

Happy Tuesday, friends! Today's coming at you with another totally random post about the things that I think about when I lay down at night. 🤣 I hope you enjoy this and get a laugh over some of this! 

I can't believe that I forgot to mention this in yesterday's post, but state testing started yesterday for our kiddos. I was so nervous, because I had to give part of it to a fifth grade student. It's a big deal! I could lose my job over something misspoken or a big enough mistake. I was thankful that it went off almost without a hitch! I did misspeak one thing, but I just kept going. I told my co-worker about it, but she said it wasn't big enough to report it as a testing irregularity. Whew! 

The schedule this week is a little bit all over the place, but I'm okay with this! It's nice to have something different to do for an entire two weeks. I'm kind of excited about it; does that make me sound nerdy? Or burned out? Ha!

On the note of things that are work related, I love my co-workers so much! Karen is stopping to get me breakfast tomorrow morning! I'll take a turn and pick some up for her on Wednesday. I am so thankful that I have a job and co-workers to love! I don't say this lightly; I literally thank God for this everyday as I get dressed for work in the morning.

I've seen Marilyn again since Sunday night, and we talked on the phone for sweet forever last night before I started writing this post. I don't know how we have so much to talk about on a regular basis, but y'all. We never shut up! 🤣

I finally saw my guy last night! We hugged and hugged and hugged in the parking lot before ever making it into the restaurant. I can't go too long without seeing him! We ate pizza for dinner across a table, then he slid over in the booth beside me so we could hold hands. And maybe kiss a little. 😉 It's funny how I used to hate PDA, and now I'm an active participant in it all the time when we're out in public. I'm so thankful for this man and that I get to call him mine. 

I've gotten spoiled to having good pizza. I no longer do the cheap kind; this particular spot is a favorite. I eat it once every two weeks, and I like to order it in the diet version (thin crust). 

In talking to Marilyn last night, she encouraged me to listen to worship music reminding myself of Who I belong to (not Chris). I immediately found a playlist on Spotify called Child of God. I came across a song I love called Jireh, by Elevation Worship. Take a look at some of these lyrics...

I'll never be loved more than I am right now

Wasn't holding You up

So there's nothing I can do to let You down

It doesn't take a trophy to make You proud

I'll never be more loved than I am right now

Going through a storm but I won't go down

I hear Your voice

Carried in the rhythm of the wind to call me out

You would cross an ocean so I wouldn't drown

You've never been closer than You are right now

You are Jireh, You are enough

Jireh, You are enough

And I will be content in every circumstance

You are Jireh, You are enough

I could honestly keep going with this, but I need to shower and get a move on with the day. Most of you know I shared pretty candidly last week about how I still get on the struggle bus every once in a while. I never could make myself go back to that post and thank you for the comments, so I'll do that now. Thank you. Thank you for loving me and for not judging me here. Thank you for praying for me. Thank you for understanding, even if it's not something you've ever walked through, and for being a constant source of encouragement and joy for me. Mere words could never express how grateful I am for all of you. 

I'll see you back here tomorrow for The Hodgepodge. Love to all.

Jenn 

Hello, Monday

 

Happy Monday, friends! I hope you had a great weekend! I can't wait to hear from you at the end of today's post. I'm linking up with Holly and Sarah for today's blog post. I'll jump right in, starting with Friday. 

Our PTA at school is amazing; this week we had two treat days. And now that I write this, one might not have been from the PTA. We had teacher treat day on Wednesday, and Sonic drink day on Friday. Any day that I get to enjoy my favorite Sonic drink at lunch is a great day! 

I came home for a little while after work, mainly to change clothes and to tell Jonah and Noah my weekend plans. I talked to Noah for a while about his day...which I loved. It's moments like that I've missed since he moved away two years ago! Jonah was outside doing something when that happened; I love talking to him about his day as well. He likes to talk more at night after he's come home from being out. I love that they do this! I talked to all of my sons that day, and I remember being grateful for that. 

I went to Marilyn's house (the one she was moving out of) and helped her do a couple of things while they loaded my car. I wasn't there long, honestly. She ordered pizza for us for dinner (her, her daughter's boyfriend, and me), then I left to go pick it up for us. I drove to her apartment complex and sat in the parking lot until they showed up. Isn't this picture so pretty? She's living in my favorite part of town, and if I were to ever move into an apartment, I would want to move into the same ones. I love how convenient it is to everything! It felt amazing outside. Once they got there, we ate dinner, then unloaded our vehicles. It was just the two of us after the boyfriend left; we hung out and talked and did a few things before calling it a night. She needed to run one errand, so I met her there, and then we parted ways for the night. 

First new home picture! I love this woman so, so much. I still refer to her as Soulmate. 

I came home and stayed up long enough to put my things away from the day, then I headed upstairs and took a shower. I fell asleep pretty quickly! I slept in as long as possible on Saturday before waking up and coming down for coffee. On Saturdays I watch TV! I turned on Virgin River and did a few things around the house while that was on. Mare didn't need me early, so I didn't leave my house until noon. I made a run for our lunches, and then coffee for me. 

I smiled really big when this fell out of my Bible. 

I found and saved these images to my phone for a new screensaver/wallpaper. 

Finally! Iced coffee to help with my massive headache. I took all this to Marilyn's just as the movers were leaving. We sat and ate for a few minutes, then we got to work with the heaps of boxes. We made huge progress before her sister got there, then we took a break for dinner around 5:30. We walked over to a place called Cheffie's and I got this delicious salad.

I came home after dinner. I needed to shower and wash my hair to get ready for church the next morning, so I crashed pretty early. 

I went back over there one more time for the weekend after church. We ate lunch, and then worked on a couple more things, but she and her sister had it looking great from the night before! I was so impressed when I walked in with her Sunday afternoon. I stayed there all afternoon until I met up with Kendra for dinner at 6:30. After that it was home and straight to bed for me. I have a long week coming up, so I wanted to be refreshed for Monday morning. 

It was a great weekend, but the giant missing piece was Chris. He was supposed to have been out of town for the weekend, but he ended up not going because rain was canceling the races he'd planned on either being in or watching. I hated not seeing him even once over the weekend, but we made plans to meet today after work. I miss him! I haven't seen him in almost a week, and I'm not okay with that, honestly. 

What did you do that you loved this weekend? I'd love to hear from you! Thanks for reading my blog today, friends. Love to all! 

Friday Favorites, 4.17.2026

 

Happy Friday, friends! I hope you've had a great week! Mine has been really good. I mentioned here Monday that because I'd planned to be traveling that day this week, I had taken the day off. Even though I ended up not being able to go on the trip, I kept that day off. It was glorious! It'll be my last day off before school ends for the semester. It's been a busy week for us at CWES! We're preparing for the big state test that will start next week. I'm so ready for it to be here so we can move on from all the reviewing that we're doing. After the test, it's all downhill from there, and tons of fun is headed our way to usher out the 2025/2026 school year! This year has flown by with lightning speed, as I knew it would. 

This was me on July 28, capturing my first day back to work for my memories. Looking back is my favorite! Okay, well...onto my favorites from this week.

Catching up with Mare when she got home Monday night was my favorite! Of course I went straight to her as soon as she got home from the blog trip! We ate dinner and enjoyed catching up and making a game plan for this weekend, when she moves. I'm hers for the weekend! 

I preordered this book by Diane Shiffer; do you follow her on Instagram or TikTok? I love her videos and was delighted to hear that she'd written a book of compilations that are similar to the videos she shares. Isn't the cover beautiful? Little details like that are always my favorite. 

The kiddos at school this week have been having Glow parties in P.E. God bless the coaches for doing this five days this week! They all dress up in neon, and the music is pumping as they dance and play games with black lights on in the gym. This is to get them pumped up for TCAP next week! Glow parties are their favorite!

Little things like this on IG are always my favorite. I don't know how true this one is for me, but I still liked it enough to save it to my phone and to share here. 

Chris sent me these pictures yesterday; this is where we're going next weekend! I can't wait to travel with him. I feel like it might be my new favorite! 

This is a terrible picture, but one sweet little (favorite) student brought me this tiny flower yesterday! She made my day. 

Looking out the windows and seeing all this green is a favorite right now.  

Getting dressed is still a favorite! I am loving dress season right now. 

My new favorite thing at home are these curtains and this rug! I love the change that it brought about in my home. I've got some more things on the horizon, so stay tuned!

What was a favorite of yours this week? I'd love to hear from you! Thanks for reading my blog today, friends. Love to all! 

Jenn 

the Wednesday hodgepodge

 

Happy Wednesday, friends! I'm here with Joyce again today for the weekly hodgepodge...this is a post that I dearly love; thank you, Joyce, for your inspiring and thought provoking questions each and every week! I'll jump right in! 

1. It's a big week in the USA...do you do your own taxes? What's something you felt was "taxing" lately? I do my own taxes, which started last year. Something that always feel taxing is having to deal with difficult people. I'm at the age of not having much of a poker face; this is not always a good thing, friends. There are certain people in my life that I'm talking about here, and I know you're picking up on who I'm talking about...but there are also people/situations at work that are difficult. I detest drama and try to stay as far away from it as possible, no matter the cost. I am a huge fan of protecting my peace. 

2. When it comes to travel, are you a last minute packer or a lay it all out a week in advance type? Do you struggle to pack light? Share a packing tip that has worked for you. I am definitely a last minute packer. I watch the weather the week that I leave, then I'll pack the night before, excluding any last minute add-ons like toiletries and such. I do struggle to pack light, like most other women. I'm getting better with each trip, though! I don't know that it's a packing tip, but I try to take only two pairs of shoes: one to wear and one in the suitcase. On that same side, I'll pack my toiletry bag, pajamas, and my brush. On the other side, I pack the clothes I'll wear when I'm gone. I don't fold things too tightly, but I layer the outfits, and I pack by outfit. 

3. April is National Grilled Cheese month. Hmmm...who knew it got its own month? Do you like a grilled cheese sandwich? What ingredient do you add to take yours to the next level? I was today year's old when I found out this sandwich had its own month. I love grilled cheese sandwiches, even if I rarely eat them. When my dad was alive, many Fridays found us eating a grilled cheese with tomato or tomato/roasted red pepper soup to accompany. They're delicious! I don't really add other ingredients than cheese to mine, but I like go fancy it up by using good cheese, or even a variety of cheeses! Add an avocado to the side as garnish, and that is a scrumptious meal! 

What I wouldn't give for another Friday with Dad! 

4. There's a well known quote that says:

'A ship in the harbor is safe, but that's not what ships are built for.' John A. Shedd

Is constant growth necessary or do you think it's more important to prioritize stability and peace in your life? I think a healthy balance of both of these things is good for us all. I definitely lean toward growing continually...I think that we all need to keep our minds healthy and active by keeping it engaged. Working has been good for me this year! I've learned a lot in the last seven months from the amazing women that I work with. On the flip side of this, I think it's good to be in a state of learning to be content. That can be done by resting and disengaging from work to give our active minds a rest. I think this is also dependent upon the life stage that one is in. This all rings true for me at the moment, though. 

5. Let's wrap this up with a little spring 'this or that'. My answers will be in pink.

daffodils or tulips

lemonade or iced tea

gardening or hiking

ladybugs or butterflies

umbrella or raincoat

floral patterns or polka dots

6. Insert your own random thought here. I'm making changes at home once again! I bought a new rug for my dining room this week and am in love with the way it changed up that space. I also bought curtains for my house, along with rods, and Jonah installed them for me Monday night. 

I don't know if anyone is in the market for such things, but I'm including links for both of these. Here are my curtains, and here is the rug that I bought. I made the decision to do away with the blinds that I had downstairs; I think they dated the rooms. I don't regret getting rid of them! Doing that really opened up the space in here and it gives it a very clean, modern look. Do you have thoughts on these changes? 

I can't wait to read your answers to these prompts! I'll see you back here tomorrow, friends. Love to all!

Jenn 

simply Tuesday

 

Happy Tuesday, friends! I thought I'd talk about a few things that are kind of random here on my blog today. I had this idea when I was looking for a picture on my phone recently and found all these pics I'd taken for my blog, but then never shared. I hope you enjoy this kind of post today! 

I found this on socials last week; I feel like this is such a profound truth. Even though I loved this when I saw it, it instantly made me sad. It's not a great feeling to have been given up on; it's always in the back of my mind, me wondering if it'll happen again. Starting over in life in your late forties is both humbling and terrifying. 

These are a few of my favorite things, except for the one about enjoying a clean home that I didn't clean. I have only experienced that once or twice in my life, but honestly? I enjoy cleaning my own home. I take pride in it, and I love the structure and routine of putting it all back in order and then the task of keeping it tidy. And then there are other days when the same things sit on the kitchen counters for days on end, but life is about balance, right? 

Will my Flair felt tip pens ever not make me happy? The answer is no. 

I ordered these new Reef sandals recently and tested them at work last week. They're wonderful! Here's a link if you'd like to check them out. I wasn't sure about the cream color, but I really like them. I love that all the straps are adjustable and that the bottom is cork. 

I've been on the struggle bus a lot lately with feelings and emotions. I think it's partly because of the impending date of my ex-husband marrying the woman he left me for. Can I be candid for a minute? I don't want him back, but I also kind of hate the thought of him being so "happy" now. I said that word with quotations because even if he thinks he's happier with her, I know that deep down, he isn't. He has a God-sized void in his life that he's trying to fill; she'll be a fix temporarily or permanently, I don't know the time frame, but I know that unless he finds God, he will never be content. She suits him, because she was also married when they began their affair. And then about a week after our divorce was official, they began living together. Something so illicit usually doesn't last; I know all this, but still the struggle is there. These are the thoughts that keep me awake a lot at night, and I've been having vivid dreams involving them lately. That happened a lot at the beginning, too. All that to say, I could use some prayer, if you're the praying type. Thanks for always letting me be so vulnerable here; I really do feel as if this is a safe space. 

Needless to say, a lot of what I've written above is still me mourning what was, even if that was an illusion on my part. I still experience the death of my hopes and dreams in life daily, and this reminder was such a beautiful part of my morning one day recently. 

And just because now we all need to laugh a little after the serious turn this took, these two things above made me laugh so hard when I saw them on IG. 

I love my little town so much. I love that Marilyn lives here now and that I randomly bump into her. I feel fortunate to live in such a pretty place; I love taking walks around the town square, which is what I was doing the day that I took this picture. 

I have thoroughly enjoyed having season tickets to Broadway plays at The Orpheum this year! I've given away two now, and am giving away a third one the week I go out of town with Chris. This one above was my favorite to date! 

Pardon the curse word, but these daily reminders are necessary!

I loved this one, too. I need this reminder constantly! 

Do you have thoughts about any of these things? I'd love to hear from you! I'll see you back here tomorrow, friends. Love to all!

Jenn